A study in contrasts: safety, comfort, and play

In which I contrast my previous homecoming with yesterday’s and see clearly how to put the relationship first.

Stolen laptop has ponies, not porn

In which I note that my laptop was stolen and that my horse is now 100 percent night-blind, but I’m home and all is well.

Salsa’s Unexpectedly Excellent Session

In which I describe a walk and liberty play session with Salsa, and we share A Moment.

RBI + ENFP = Partnership? Let’s hope so

In which I begin to explore our relationship in terms of an RBI/ENFP partnership.

It’s not about the…

A brief (really!) observation about ‘it’s not about the…’

From ‘oh no’ to ‘oh boy’

In which I confess to worries that Rocky will never be serviceably sound, but trying to accept it if that’s how it has to be.

Graphic reasons to get dental care for your horse

In which I discuss the state of Salsa’s mouth and what it means for his attitude; plus, before and after photos hidden after the jump for those who want to see.

R E S P E C T find out what it means to me

In which I muse upon the meaning of respect, and what I need to do to increase the respect from both horses, respectfully.

On the road again

Seth says Jedi is napping by the wood-burning stove, and Leslie’s got the horses and guinea pigs taken care of, and I’m about to hit the sack, and I realized that I needed the ritual of horseblogging to relax enough to get to sleep. I’m out here in Raleigh for my day job and I [...]

Salsa was a champ with the farrier; plus, Rockstar stuck to me

In which I count some blessings.

OK so this is cool

As Salsa got in and out of the trailer on his own today, with me standing to the side and just sort of gesturing and running a load/unload video loop in my head, I realized that I get some credit for this. The first time he loaded with the divider up — it’s a two [...]

Waning Gibbous 83 Percent of Full

In which I reflect on qualities of horsewomen, getting out the door, and the future.

Energy and persistence conquer all things ~ Ben Franklin

In which I report on a good horse day, and as I write, realize that I did quite a few things right tonight.

Principle #5: The attitude of justice is effective

The attitude of juh-wuh? This one means “trust, but be ready to correct, no more one than the other.” Trust your horse to do his job, and if he makes a mistake, help him: answer his question, bring him in for reassurance and try again, ask for the gait again, or whatever is appropriate for [...]

No philosophers so thoroughly comprehend us as dogs and horses ~ Herman Melville

In which I describe a normal evening of on-line practice and the realization that once again, I wasn’t going to get to ride.