Leadership

Beauty in the breakdown

Rocky first, then Salsa…

Rocky

I put Rocky’s boots on tonight and we moseyed around the loop and out the big gate, then up the gravel road to the edge of our property (but on the Outside of the Fence! Gasp!).  The edge of the property just happens to be the edge of the Back 40 — his pasture — and he was so cute, gazing through the trees at his herd, clearly thinking “huh, weird, I’m on the wrong side of the fence.”
rock carrot
We hung out there a little bit and he was more interested in looking around than grazing, though he did nose around the ground a few times. More evidence supporting my “innate RBI” conclusion: if he were innately LBI, he’d give a quick glance around, note the absence of danger, and graze like he’ll never get to graze again.

On the way back, he paused in my side yard, across from the pigs, and sniffed and snorted around, so I just waited and tried to keep the rope out from under his hoof, to see what he would do. That area is full of scary things: two lumber piles under tarps of two different colors, wheelbarrows, a tool shed, some shovels, a pile of bricks, a big stump. All of this cast shadows in the floodlights, so to Rocky — who is moonblind and has no night vision — it must have seemed like he was on an island of solid ground surrounded by black holes.

He tensed and snorted, and I waited. I don’t know how long we were there, as I was kicking the ball for Jedi, singing, doing a few stretches of my own. Rocky did relax and put his head down, blinking and breathing, although there was no big “blow” of release. I suddenly jumped as if startled and he didn’t react; sometimes when I do that he plants all four feet and has a full-body spasm, and in fact it’s become my test of “is he going right brain right now?”

I finally did lead us back toward the barn when he had lifted his head and stood still for quite a while, looking at the pig pen across the drive, and I don’t know what I was seeing but I felt that he was working himself up instead of calming himself down. So I led the retreat, and then asked for a hindquarter yield so his nose was pointing back at the threshold. I waited there until he dropped his head and nosed around looking for some other trouble to get into.

This is Jedi, showing us the scary area during the daytime:

Then we went into the arena and played at the trot.

I encouraged his idea when he took off at Evil Trot in a circle rather than follow the figure 8, and we did traveling circles until he asked to come in. I invited him in, stroked him, then returned to the figure 8 and sent him again. We did this little routine a couple of times and then he executed a figure 8 without breaking gait and I said “great!” and that was that for figure 8.

I tied some cones together with a lead rope and draped them over his back and had him carry them to where I could setup a weave pattern. He expressed his preference for a circle with head up and nose tilted away, so off we went on more traveling circles. He kept his inside ear on me though and when he straightened his had and lowered his nose, I invited him in. Our circling game is broken so I am trying very hard to stay aware of his language and wait for him to tune in before we stop circling, even if it means several changes of direction. The traveling circle works well for us because it does not stress his coffin joints as much as a 22-foot circle does.

I am going through the level 2 patterns again, this time at the trot as intended, although not doing 7 sessions in a row of the things he’s bored with. Next session we’ll skip the figure 8, do a weave to warm up (I did something differently today and our weave was the best ever — and he offered more and I asked less!). But we will do seven sessions of the circle pattern, and we might even do them in the round pen, so that I can really get that rhythm, relaxation, and contact thing down. I’ve done it wrong for so long it might take more than seven sessions to fix, but I won’t turn it into a drill. We’ll do our seven, then move on, and refine in level 3 when we have the 45-foot line for wider circles and cantering.

Salsa

salsa soulI’m moving too fast with Salsa and the games. He puts his nose on things and finds the cookie for touch-it pattern, but tonight showed me that he’s doing exactly that: putting his nose on things for the cookie. Not following my lead in a dance toward the touch-it goal. Just walking along when I walk, then touching whatever object is near, and munching.

Next session I will break things down further and spend more time on friendly, porcupine, and driving, in isolation, and then finish up with a few touch-it items.

I need to get that appropriate-response-to-pressure thing more solid. It’s like I’d forgotten that Salsa has not practiced the beginning of level 1, and have expected him to respond to wiggles and pokes and faces and belly buttons without actually teaching him what friendly, porcupine, and driving look like when *I* do them.

I did the right thing with the friendly game tonight, though. I put my feet on an X on the barn floor to make sure I didn’t move them, and I moved the pony around as needed, as I played with the curry and brush (translation: groomed him). He’s not afraid but he didn’t want to give me zone 4 for grooming. That’s fine — there was plenty of dirt and hair on zones 2 and 3 to work with. It’s hard to stay bent over though so I grabbed a chair and sat in that to finish the grooming.

Then I rubbed his front legs, one at a time, scratching, massaging, stroking, rhythmically. When he shifted his weight to the other side, I released. When he lifted his foot, I released. Then one time when he lifted his foot I massaged around it a bit, said “okay,” and put it back down. Eventually I held it, cleaned it, and set it back down. I did all four feet in this way and it did not take as long to get the back ones as it did yesterday, which is how I know I’m on the right track. I also managed to give him a cookie while he held a foot up and rested it in the palm of my hand. (The hoof, not the cookie.)

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When you come to the end of your rope, tie a knot and hang on – Eleanor Roosevelt

Salsa, Salsa, Salsa. Was ever a pony so aptly named? He’s getting spicier and saucier by the day as his confidence grows, and woe betide the level 2 Parelli student who is trying to insist on politeness and respect but who doesn’t always notice immediately when it’s not happening.

Today was day four of playing porcupine and driving games and day two of the on-line level one touch-it pattern. I wasn’t sure if I should start the pattern so soon, or wait until we had at least five and maybe even the full seven sessions of the games. After today, I am glad I started the pattern. Putting his nose on things and finding cookies gives him incentive to pay attention to what I’m doing, and to respond appropriately to pressure.

porcupineUnfortunately I am not being clear with my pronunciation yet. I find I keep holding the 12-foot line with about six feet of slack between the snap and my hand, which was the right amount for when Rocky and I started. But for him, it’s too much. If I try to send, or porcupine, zone 1, I can extend my arm all I want but nothing moves on his side. I also kept dropping my carrot stick. I read about this phenomenon on the Savvy Club forums — suddenly everything is twice as long as you want it to be, when playing with a mini.

But oh wow, is Salsa mad. He was digging the undemanding time, his only responsibility being to put his nose in his halter, which he will do if you out-wait his evasion and hopes of coaxing you into a wrestling match. And the feet have become an argument again. Now that he is totally comfortable here and in his routine, his innate medium-high spirit left-brain extrovert (LBE) horsenality is coming out, and man oh man is he a dominant one.

Erin was leading him from his night turnout in the Back 40 to his day room in Pen 1A, and she bumped his nose every time he pulled his evasion trick of putting his head high and to the right. I was not there, but as she described it, it sounds like she was working on hindquarter yield and face with two eyes, for the entire route. He got madder and madder and as they passed her Saturn, he let out a double-barrel hind kick right into the car! The car is fine, and Salsa is fine, and Erin is fine, but it was validating to hear that he’s expressing himself with her, too.

clarityI need to work on clarity of motion, reducing the noise in my body language so Salsa can understand the signal. I need this with Rocky too, but Rocky fills in for me, and he pulls my vision out of my head and most of the time brings it to life, because he likes me and usually wants to please me. He also likes to be a partner. Salsa doesn’t yet see any reason to be a partner; our rapport is still fledgling, although he does like me, and he is uber skeptical about granting me his respect.

What’s so cool is that I am recognizing things I would not have seen in level 1, and in part that is due to seeing the Parelli team in person, at the gold summit and at the Reno celebration.

Just as a f’r’instance:

  • Salsa is reactive about zone 5, and nervous about zone 4. Action Step: Lots of friendly game.
  • Salsa is motivated by food, but also motivated by getting to move his feet. Action Step: Intersperse moseying (walking and trotting), so that our touch-it pattern is not a drill.
  • Salsa is innately confident, dominant, curious, and quick to dismiss a human who doesn’t keep ahead of him every moment. Action Step:  Study the LBE/dominance materials on the Savvy Club site, keep the gold hotline handy, put on the music and focus on him like I’m doing a Spotlight.

Erin told me that the way to see if my strategies are working is if the same thing takes half the time the next time. For example, if it took 10 minutes to get the hind foot up and relaxed, then tomorrow or the next day if it takes five minutes, I know I’m on the right track. But if by the third attempt it still takes 10 minutes (or even longer), it’s not working and I need to try something else. So simple! so easy to measure! so d’oh!ladyhunt

Another recent epiphany came from one of these articles in the most recent Savvy Times magazine, about de-spooking a horse. It outlines several tactics and includes a  paragraph that says something like “do one (or more) of the strategies: point his nose at the scary thing and let him drift; do yo-yo game to back him up; play squeeze game” and other things. There is no One Right Way, there is only the way that works for your horse and you, and probably more than one way.

With Rocky, yo-yo game and waiting for him to step over the threshold helps. So does setting it up so he can follow (chase, drive) the scary thing (pot-bellied pig). So does focusing my eyes intently on something in the distance and walking focusedly toward it, engaging the natural power of focus to keep Rocky’s focus. I would not do this if he slammed into a threshold, but this is good for when he’s mildly anxious but willing to trust me.

Rocky told the animal communicator that I was writing a story about him, and he was proud. I’m not sure how he feels about sharing his story — this blog — with Salsa, but it is all part of the journey. Salsa is teaching me things that I would not learn with Rocky, but that I can use to Rocky’s benefit. Salsa came here to teach me about leadership first and language second.

Hey, at least I’ve got the love part down.

Time management is still an issue. I’m toying with the idea of attempting (again) to making 7pm to 9pm horse time, inviolate, no matter how behind I am on work. Today I played with Salsa at lunchtime and helped with the ranch chores in the evening, but I can’t do that all the time, as my deadlines loom. (That’s what they do before they whoosh by.)

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