Posts Tagged With: mama told me there’d be days like these

Calm of mind, all passion spent ~ John Milton

Linda wrote a great article in the May 2009 Savvy Times about the goal we have for our horses: a calm, trusting, motivated, and willingly obedient partner — in that order. You can’t have motivation in a horse that isn’t calm; and without trust, you will not get willing obedience. She ties this to the horsenalities and makes brief suggestions on what to do to achieve each state, and refers us out to the horsenality materials for more details.

Here is what I had in my head, when I went out to play with Rock tonight:

perfect partner diagram

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One of those days: Front Arena, Session Five

Why is it never as easy as it looks on the DVDs? This time, I took Rocky in the Scary Front Arena™ for Session Five, intending to play briefly and then set him free for a long turnout while we headed to mom and dad’s for SuperBowl.

I believe I know the mistakes I made, and, because of that and my growing ability to read Rocky, I was able to correct or at least damage-control some of the consequences. That’s how I’m going to frame it, because it was one of those days where I just felt inadequate and endlessly novice.

I even compared myself to Jenni and how she would be able to ride him up there, so naturally and easily, and keep him focused, and he’d stop being afraid after about 15 minutes, and never be nervous up there again. Even though I’m not Jenni, I have 11 years and 50 pounds on her, plus 15 months of horse experience versus her 21 years. So, ridiculous to be disappointed in myself that I’m a) not as competent and b) not as fast.

Here are the main mistakes I reflected upon afterward, and the “yay me!” moments too: Continue reading

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